There is a lot to be said about the magic of making up when a relationship fails. Many times it is over infidelity and for one to forgive another for this misuse of trust is often too great an ask. However, even in the celebrity world we hear of those partners who have taken back their lovers after they have been caught cheating and in a very public way.
However, the magic of making up should not be underestimated. It can also be the beginning of an even stronger relationship even if one partner has cheated on the other. They may have come to realise that what they have with that partner is better than any one night stand. The relationship can develop into one of better understanding and longevity. The magic of making up can help to re-engage the feelings that were present at the start of the relationship and remind you of what it was you saw in your partner and why you wanted to be with them in the first place.
Many relationships flounder through lack of communication and one partner thinking they are being taken for granted. The magic of making up can sometimes be a catalyst for these issues to be resolved, as it is generally accepted that during the act of making up a lot of truths are told by both parties and any deep seated problems are often discussed and sorted out. It could be argued that the magic of making up is in fact a form of marriage/relationship counseling, only it only involves two people and no third parties should be invited to participate. The magic of making up should only be enjoyed by the two people in the relationship.
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